Dating in friendship
See immorality for what it is: a weapon of the enemy designed for your destruction.So choose your friends carefully; connect with men who care about your growth and standing as a follower of Christ.I merely wish to point out that healthy marriages are seasoned with preparation.If a man wants to find the right person he needs to be the right person, and that takes concentrated effort that is best begun before there is a potential mate on the scene.The kind of lady you want will be drawn to your character, not the model year of your car or the square footage of your house.
He wanted to help protect me from too quickly getting involved in another relationship—a common problem for men who are divorced or widowed.
Hang around Christian singles long enough and you're sure to encounter a certain emotion. Women, on the other hand, are frustrated because they want men to take initiative, to lead. Don't believe everything you hear; Christ-centered women still believe that God assigned respective roles to the sexes. Stepping Up I'll say more about this later, but for now I'll just blurt it out—it takes a man to be an initiator.
Men are frustrated because they don't understand what women want from them; and if they do have a clue, men feel the expectations are too high. How should Christian men and women move toward deeper friendship, possibly even engagement and marriage?
Clearly it is Christ who initiates the relationship—“We love because he first loved us” (1 John ).
Furthermore, the Ephesians 5 passage describes the husband as “the head of the wife.” Men are called to be—created to be—leaders.